Citygirl versus Mother Nature

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The top of the bush in our front yard
One of the things that really helped me adjust to the burbs was reading various Buddhist texts.
Buddhism teaches you is that we create a lot of our own pain by resisting life! 
When I moved here it felt so wrong and so "un-me" that I resisted everything about the burbs, the good and the bad. Needless to say that was pretty unhelpful.
Why do I mention this today, two years later? Well we're having yet another snow day and I could resist mother nature by complaining and worrying about all the things I had planned to do today and that just won't get done or I can just go with the flow and be present, make a slow, hot breakfast for everyone and play in the snow with my kids.
Resistance is futile! I'll be playing in the snow today.

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