Diversity in the burbs

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Diversity and suburbia are not words that naturally go together. Basically when you move out here for better school districts you also say goodbye to meeting and living with people of different social and ethnic backgrounds...for the most part. It's an issue I struggle with.


Last week however,  I encountered a wonderful example of diversity in the burbs.
I kicked off the year by holding a coaching workshop for women called Balance Life Coaching http://balancelife.squarespace.com/bootcamp.


It was a great way to start the year for many reasons: I love coaching; I love helping women get the life they want; I love motivating people to try things they're afraid to try. But the best part was that amongst this seemingly homogenous group of mothers living in Fairfield county, there was diversity. There were woman of different ethnicities (Asian, Jewish, Hispanic), at different life stages, of different professional backgrounds (ballerina, lawyer, digital marketer, writer, teacher), and with different life goals (writing, non-profit, socially responsible marketing). 


I'd always assumed that women who live in the burbs were all the same. Yes, there are the stereotypical suburban moms. But thankfully, when you open up yourself to meeting new friends, you realize there are also a lot of interesting, unique and fun women too. 

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