As you know, food in CT is not usually something to rave about....well yesterday, on our way back from a morning of skiing with the kids, we discovered a gem of a diner. If you are within driving distance of Middletown, CT you must stop at O'Rourke's diner. We devoured the best diner food ever. Banana bread french toast, covered in baked bananas, Grilled Cheese made with homemade whole grain bread, that tasted like cake, Raspberry pancakes that melted in your mouth. To top if off, the service was incredibly friendly and efficient.
When you live in the city, you dream of going to those huge wholesale places like Sam's Club so that you can buy diapers and cereals at a fraction of city prices. I use to envy those neighbors who pulled up with their cars at the end of the weekend filled with cheap groceries. Ironies of ironies when I first moved out here I resisted joining a wholesale club. Truth be told it was more than my bruised and homesick ego could take. But after hearing from a number of "normal" people that it was the thing to do with a big family, I joined and I hid my membership card deep into my wallet. That was six months ago. Today I learned that I'm still figuring out the basic rules of wholesale shopping. I learnt these rules the hard way, i.e. by not following them and paying dearly for it. #1 Never ever take a child with you, they'll be a source of distraction and that's the last thing you need in a place like Costco's, you need to focus. #2 Bring a list of what you need...
I've spent quite a bit of time over the last year, writing about about the pros and cons of the suburbs. Well let's face it maybe a little bit more about the cons. Last night I was moaning a little bit to hubby about the lack of diversity in the burbs. I really feel that it's important for my kids to interact with people from different ethnic and social backgrounds. I thought I was making a fair point. But hubbie's reaction was less than enthusiastic. He reminded me that in our NYC neighborhood there may have been ethnic diversity but the common denominator was wealth. He also reminded me that for the privilege of living there we were sacrificing on other fronts. At first I reacted badly to this. I always take the pro-city side in any conversation. But upon reflection, I realize that hubby was pointing out something important. In fact he pointed out something that I've been telling my coaching clients. Be grateful. No matter where you are the first step is to be...
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